She’s Out of Control

I’m visiting Champaign, IL for the weekend to see a good friend of mine. She’s a great girl:
Smart, fun, funny…no hilarious. Generous in every way. Also she’s beautiful.

Which is why I don’t understand why she’s hung up over this guy from her job.
He’s younger, and in my opinion, though she can’t see this, he isn’t anywhere near on the same level as she is.

Its fine if she likes him, but she needs to play it cool. He needs to chase her, she deserves that much.

I keep telling her, ignore him…it will throw him for a loop, he won’t know what’s going on.

Well she ran into him last night when we were coming home from the bars. I must have already been inside her apartment, because I never saw him. Anyway, she said he didn’t say hi to her when he saw her. “He must have seen me,” she said. “For some reason he walked pass his truck and then back to it. Then got in…he had to see me…but he didn’t say anything.” She said it so quietly. I hated seeing her like this over someone probably not worth her time.

I hope I see him before the weekend is over. I need to understand what has someone so in control so out of it.